Monday, May 21, 2018
Another Load Done
We had friends I have known since middle school who stopped by RH on their way from my hometown (his mother passed, they had memorial and worked on decluttering her lake house). So, we did not get as much done as we usu do, but we had a nice visit and stayed up way too late enjoying a firepit night.
We briefly visited with my sister in law and her husband (road our ATV's by their house/through their field). They both seem really tired and both are tired/stressed from dealing with his mother's home/estate - 3 hours away. Brother in law had a lot in common with my friend from middle school - he is now going through the very same thing - smaller in scale (friend's mom was not quite a hoarded). But friend is a single child and they live 20 hours away in another state. It sure does make me think about 1) how I will deal with my own estate (lifetime of decluttering/purging). Either I will kick it in gear if DH goes before me, or I will not have to worry as much - as he will be forced to deal with it. Either way...I am looking at my belongings in a whole new way.
I am interested in hearing other peoples thoughts on this. Or just what you did this past weekend? Summer plans?
Sunday, March 11, 2018
Spring Forward
I slept in late this morning! After falling asleep early last night!
Had a great birthday weekend. Flowers from DH at work Friday. Got my annual physical over with (including fasting blood work till 2pm!) Fancy seafood dinner that night.
Sat I did bunch of deep clean ing, got carpets and furniture professionally cleaned. I did baseboards, ceiling fans, blinds, cleaned put northern Windows (gunky in the bottom around screen). Did some touch up paint, filled some holes...cleaned cobwebs from front door area. I was sore! And between this, losing an hour to spring forward and 2 nights hot yoga, I slept late.
Whew, I needed It! House looking great! Giant tree gone to my friend's house...kitty goes to my other friends next weekend for few months (she fosters several)...We nailed down hotel we can stay by the month...has kitchen, furnished and allows small dogs...this is getting real.
Weather turned chilly. What's the weather like where you are? Can you think of things to help sell a house? Cleaning or staging ideas?
Have a great week!
Sunday, September 24, 2017
Two Steps Forward
Some great strides in decluttering and saving, then I see something shiney. Oh well. I had saved up some money for a couple of things and so I feel ok as long as I try to stay away from impulse buying. I had planned to get something nice for DH retirement and now that is out of the way. I can work almost a year trying to add back to my savings to make up for that.
My DH also sold his newer truck recently so we could put that money in the bank to be able to pay off RH when we sell our CH. It should happen still. I also recently did a small financial assist for a family member and gave to Red Cross for hurricane and bought a shirt to help animal shelter. So, that makes me feel really good.
I read another blog who recommended you hire an inspector to go through and point out stuff you can address beforehand. I may just have BIL who has built houses do that. I also have a friend who is really good at staging and when she was here last month, she gave me lots of ideas that I wrote down on a list. I did not get rid of much this weekend, but now that we will have our big SUV back, I can take a giant lamp to my aunt (A2) and I am taking a large houseplant and 2 giant planters to my SIL2.
I wish I had started blogging sooner so I could remember all the stuff I have sold, given away to family/friends and given to thrift stores. It has been pretty substantial. Here are a few examples: clothes, shoes, jewelry, collectibles of certain name brands sold. I have used Facebook market place, ebay and Poshmark. Furniture: FB, garage sales and Craigslist. Plus I have given plenty away. Sentimental stuff goes back to where I got it, or on to younger people in my family. Sporting goods, expensive small items mostly ebay. I had a freezer that we called bulk item pick up and I have put several large things we don't want, that have little value that I have sat by the curb with a "free" sign during our neighborhood garage sale. I will do a whole post on Poshmark sometime. All these things I have probably make over $5000 in the past 2 years. I also gave away some large houseplants free on Craigslist.
The older I get, the more I think about cleaning and maintaining certain things. I am getting tired of houseplants, but I still keep a few. DH and I really hate to kill houseplants. I would rather give it away. My health condition is cooperating with me great this weekend, feel great! I walked yesterday before it got warm and I will walk later today again, AFTER the NFL game!