Friday, May 15, 2020

2 weeks have gone by!

...since my last post.  I have been very busy.  If I thought my first week was bad, weeks 2 and 3 of my new (temp) job have been crappy too.

DH was in the hosp a 2nd time after the pneumonia scare.  He is having kidney function issues.  He finally agreed though to get a doctor down here in our new state and the new doctor was involving a nephrologist (kidney specialist) who advised DH potassium was so high, he was instructed to go straight to the E/R, so he did.  2 more nights.  I am taking care of 4 dogs, maintaining the house, mowing the yard, trying to do my work...meanwhile I would be so tired that I forced myself to continue to do yoga or walk when I had the chance.  Good for my head.  Then I fall into bed exhausted just to lie there and look at the ceiling in barely contained terror about what was going to happen to DH.

Then he comes home a week ago today and is barely eating, or when he does eating sweets/ice cream.  Is just sleeping all day, etc.  Not moving, not doing anything to help himself.  Not following up with doctors at the speed I would prefer, etc.  After a week of having him home, I am ready to run away.

Job very stressful.  The gov agency is overwhelmed and lots of changes, new people.  Rules either haven't been made/tested out or no one knows what they are.  People who have experience are trying to teach 40 other people the job, etc.  Then I just about figure out the workload and I am already switched to another role with 3 week period of time.  Not to mention this stressful background/document signing process that took me over 2.5 hours one day to complete.  Asking for my parent's names/dob/place of birth...grandparents, in-laws, etc.  Crazy!

But I am grateful for the income.  We finally sold DH main car (AFTER) he bought a truck (never too sick to shop for cars, ugggghhh).  To do so meant draining our savings and 2 weeks we had like $300 to our name.  I do NOT handle stuff like this.  I MUST have a rainy day fund.  Sure enough, truck already had engine light on, the contractor is able to start work on the holes in our siding (mostly north side - the hot humid weather here wreaks havoc on people's north sides - mold, decay, etc).  So
I tell contractor "YES PLEASE".  He is so busy, he might be working on other projects for months - so I nabbed him.  I will pay out of my retirement fund if I have to.  Point is, siding has holes in it and gutter got clogged so it backed up and rotted some of the fascia in the back, etc.  This stuff must be kept up with in my opinion or I go mad.

Anyway.  Today and the rest of the week except Wed (I quickly mowed - won't let DH do mowing until doctor tells me it is ok).  And I am glad I got mowing done.  Next week more stuff business and stuff opening up around my state, but we are going to continue to play it very safe due to DH health, my inlaws and my elderly grandmother.

Hope you are safe and you have roof over your head and food in your fridge.  See ya soon.

2 comments:

  1. I have the roof and full fridge. How did husband get potassium too high and how does he get it down? You sound exhausted.

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  2. I am better now! Still doing all the outside work until I know his pneumonia is truly gone. Kidney problems led to high potassium and medication in the hospital got it normalized. Stay well!

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