Wednesday, March 25, 2020
Have been going back and forth between contentment and gratitude to stir crazy/how am I going to make it through this summer mentally with all this strangeness. I have to find outlets during this solitude. I am honing a structure to my day and I think it is helping me keep perspective and remember all the things I have to be grateful for. A LOT!
But I did have a cry the other day when I looked at our retirement accounts and we received the news that any assistance from the Fed government is going by returns from 2018. We will retired at the END of 2018 - so we will likely not get any of our hard earned money back. PLUS I have already filed and PAID my 2019 taxes. Sometimes it seems like doing all the right things puts one at a disadvantage. But I have never been a procrastinator.
Then I got out of my pity party and put a note on my hiking group that if anyone needs help, PM me and I can help them with errands to the story. Many of them are 10-15 years older than I. We went to the store for my in laws this weekend was so happy to help them. They seem to be doing fine - just working in their garden, etc. Not worried about toilet paper, etc. My Granny is not doing as well, her mind is just racing and worrying not having any company. It is sad. My area has indicated that businesses closed for next 30 days...people are taking that the CDC suggesting it might be through August that people are supposed to stay home...if so our fundraiser of Memorial Weekend will be cancelled. That is also the month of our reunion. I just hope that if this quarantine/social distance goes on all summer that we can see the benefits of the flattening of the curve of infected because I can't imaging the economic and mental health implications it will cause our nation.
I also bought through Amazon a wifi extender to see if I can get internet in our guest room so that I can do yoga online classes in the bedroom - we don't really have room enough anywhere else. I did a nice session Sunday and Tuesday. I will do another one Thurs and maybe Friday or Saturday.
Sunday, April 7, 2019
Heavy Weekend
Thursday, drove back up to city to see my terminal ill cousin, she was being helped by her brothers. Her son is an alcoholic and absent. So that has been very hard on her. She said her mother so angry at son, mother (my great aunt) was writing him off.
After that, I drove on up and visited with my Dear Grandmother and took her some cookies. Then took her tax stuff to tax place, got that done. I stayed with my aunt. Had dinner with friend from 3rd grade. She getting married Memorial weekend. So we caught up. Enjoyed chat with my aunt and uncle. Cant believe how uncle failing. He has lost 90 pounds since his fall last August.
Friday I talked to my old project manager. I was a temp fir 11 years. I can still do projects at my old rate. Nothing work from home, unfortunately. Then saw bunch of work friends, then lunch with B and T, my fave.
Friday afternoon visited with aunt and cousin, K1. They got in argument, I tried to help. I failed. I had coffee with friend T. She totally understands this type stuff. By time I got back, aunt was back to normal. I just want no drama, I guess. I can see where my experience can help, but of people dont want to try, justcwsnt to be "right" and not respect boundaries nothing I can do. So I prefer direct my energy where it matters.
Back by DGM and great Aunt on way home. I made changes to GA wishes she had written out ( she is 95), but reminded her her grandson is sick and we prayed God gets through to him. I was honored to try to be there for her such a difficult time st the twilight of her long life.
Tired, spending a day recouping today.
Happy Sunday!
Friday, March 16, 2018
Crazy Busy
Crazy busy at work...but that's good. Makes days go by fast. Did more touch up paint and clean up today. Our nephews came over to move couple heavy pieces furniture and 10 x 12 wool rug (I am giving a friend). We bought it couple years ago $100. It Is a $2000 thick well made wool rug.
2 more paint projects (and cleaning - will never finish cleaning!).
Then we took our nephews and one signed other, to dinner. They are all young and trying to decide what vocation/career paths. We had fun visiting with them.
I bought a dress for a wedding in Texas next week. I had a credit at consignment store and I am all about black and white prints...so I went ahead and picked a couple...inexpensive. I look forward to my thurs and Friday off next week.
Got call our taxes are filed. I just have to pay accountant. I am always glad when we can check that off our list!
Hot yoga in the morning! Have a great Saturday and St. Pats tomorrow!
Thursday, March 1, 2018
Anticipa-ation...
Remember the ketchup commercials?!
We have waited about 4 years to list our house and we still have a little while before we are ready. But we will be listing in less than 60 days! Last night I looked through FB and eNeighbors and saw that other people were creating evens/pages for homes that they will be soon listing. Seemed like a good idea, so I did too and put up profile and cover picture with our view and said "View available soon!" It really is exciting!
Last night I dropped off taxes paperwork to CPA and I am happy to have that off my plate onto his. This weekend, we take another full load in suburban to RH. Can't wait to get my new rug down in sitting room and bookcases in library/dining room! So exciting. I will post photos soon.
I also prematurely maybe, but I don't care. packed my warmest pj's, wool sweaters, turtlenecks, coats and winter boots. No going back now! I am just trying to make sure that 1) we are packing as much as we can take each trip (is 400+ miles round trip) and 2) keep the organization going, as we unpack and put into place our long term storage/organization plan down there. In the beginning it was easy, we just took a load and unpacked quickly. Now, with things getting more occupied I have to do some planning to get things put away. It is a good problem, in a way. But some days I feel like stuff is winning. Want to have that part behind me.
Have a wonderful Thursday! How is your spring cleaning/organizing/lent going?