Monday, June 22, 2020
The Days are Moving So Fast!
My husband and I went on a short 3 hour kayak float on a nearby river. It was only the 2nd time I have ever been in a kayak on a river. Last Saturday I went with a group of about 20 on a larger river about 2 hours away. It is a pretty well known river - The Buffalo River - in Arkansas. It is actually the first National River designated in the US. Here is the wiki link. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buffalo_National_River It is a beautiful area.
Some parts of this river are pretty dangerous due to the narrowing curves and the rocks. Not so much the rapids, as such. There are areas where the river descends enough so that is a big of a challenge too. A year or two ago there is a large sinkhole where a man drowned. He was pretty experienced kayaker from what I recall.
I did an easy section last Saturday with some very experienced people. We all are older and non drinkers/partiers. I would not want to take a chance with people who were not experienced or who were drinking. In 1995 when I was going to school in Arkansas, I did the challenging section...with an experienced outdoorsman, in a duel canoe. We did flip over once, but were fine. We were also in our 20's!
My friend and I felt my DH would enjoy a shorter kayak and made plans to go Sunday with him. I am so glad we did. We enjoyed so much the pretty scenery and the animals we saw (birds, turtles, frogs, a snake, etc). DH had a blast. The river we did yesterday was getting low. They say parts of the Buffalo (the lower) are getting low too. We had a lot of rain in March - April but it has slowed considerably. It usually does, but more towards late July. This is a little early for our lawn to be turning brown. We really don't have very good grass, so I am not going to worry much about it. As I finish diff landscaping projects, I will worry about yard next. I read that a good time to seed is around Labor Day. It is good and warm, the dry hot weather may be easing by then...can plant seed and it will be mature enough for me to weed and feed next spring. I am just going to work on very small portion of lawn in the backyard to perfect it before I expand to the front.
I did have my bonfire Friday evening. I scanned ALL my photos, scrapebooks, memorabilia, even yearbooks to my computer and burned all the originals, except what i am keeping for family (neice and nephews). I love the feeling of getting rid of stuff so my house is not stuffed. My in laws think i am crazy for getting rid of originals. We had dinner with the in laws Saturday evening for Father's Day. But my DH and his family are very much into antiques and keepsakes, just stuff. Not me. I used to be in my younger years, but the older i get the less around me I want to deal with.
Now that I have been retired (semi retired) for close to 2 years, I know more about what stuff I will keep and use and what is just extra volume that I won't need (clothes, shoes, jewelry). In a recent purge, I cleaned out a bunch of my costume jewelry and got rid of my large jewelry case. At a local consignment store I found a small chest that fits under the counter in my bathroom where the vanity is.
I love the smaller one. It is in my bath now instead of my bedroom and the lighting is much better.
Today it is pretty warm but this is late June. I usu get up and work for an hour, then feed the dogs and when i let them out into the bigger yard, i water my vegetables. My lettuce still going strong but growing to seed in next few weeks. My spinach and kale is winding down. My chard is about the same. My tomatoes have tiny fruit and i am watching them close!
Have a great Monday!
Monday, June 25, 2018
Our Last Sunday Evening in City House
Ate a small dinner Friday down at retirement country and got to visit with BIL. He had been working a job keeping him away afternoons till 11pm, well, he ended up leaving there and thinks he has another corp gig lined up late july or early aug. He and SIL had sold their 3rd veh and are considering selling their cattle (usu keep about 15 - 20 to let them focus on their downsize). He will spend few weeks attacking jobs at his late mother's residence to be able to finish that house and get the prop on the market. His sister and her husband drives 6 hours one way each weekend, versus BIL 3 hours one way to work on this property.
When DH and I got back to city and walked into CH Sunday, we could see that the woman we hired to clean had done a great job and my friends who came and got sev pieces of furniture had not left a trace of dirt or dust, so we were pleased. I cleaned out laundry cabinet, kitchen drawers and weekend the area behind my house/patio area. I weeked front area last week. We had a large brunch on the way home for DH birthday, so we just sat in our lawn chairs in our living room and drank our healthy smoothies for dinner! It was sort of fun. Our 2 dogs are like what is going on?! Where is our furniture?!
Today is the last Monday we will commute from our CH. The picture is of a rain shower we enjoyed from our view last week. Tonight I will finish packing my clothes and wipe out master bath vanity and do one more load of laundry. I will take one more walk if weather permits on my lovely route i will miss so much. DH brother coming over to get a gifted briefcase and our FSBO house sign for when he sells his house later this month or next. DH sister and his brother are all about same age as DH and all working toward downsizing and getting more nimble for retirement. I have inspired sev friends and family members to purge. I will never stop purging after seeing people deal with estates after the fact. I have no children to help me. Have a wonderful day! Here in the Midwest, we are enjoying some mild overcast weather today.
Saturday, June 2, 2018
Wow
I could get used to this! Treating myself to mani pedi this am. DH cleared out a big bag of stuff, me a small bag to goodwill. Then we are going to prepay our extended stay hotel for later this month. Then maybe I will pack a few boxes. After big storm early this morning, the day looks to be gorgeous. Enjoy this beautiful Saturday...the last Sat in my neighborhood...had driveway visit with neighbors lastnight.
Tuesday, November 28, 2017
Wardrobe Capsule (not quite) Goals
I have not slept well since last Wed. What is up with that?
This year I have redone my wardrobe. I have been doing this a little for the past 10 years as my job has become more casual and since I let my hair go gray. 2017 is the most money that I will ever spend on clothes/shoes/accessories in a single year again. For sure shoes/accessories. My clothes purchases were not too bad. I am sure I have spent more when I was just shopping for fun and with no plan. I had so much chaos. I have always been a shopper and just bough stuff on a whim or because it was on sale. But now I am downsizing fairly effectively. Other than couple strategic purpose (coat/workout/golf) I don't plan to buy much for a long time. I won't ever shop like I used to. I now focus on classic pieces and not trends. My accessories and shoes purchases this year were high, because I totally revamped both my purse/wallets and shoe wardrobe. I also bought a pair of diamond anniversary bands that I have wanted for several years. I do a lot of painting/yard/gardinging at RH, that I don't want to wear my diamond ring when i am wearing gardening or motorcycle gloves. I sold off a bunch of my shoes (boots, really) and bought 2 more very nice pair that should just about last the rest of my life. One last year and one this year. The savings in space is huge! I also got rid of about 8 various tote bags, all cheap and some falling apart for one really nice vintage leather overnight bag, 1 vintage work tote, 1 vintage leather tote for workout clothes for my trunk and 1 no name leather all purpose tote. I realize this past year I have spent a lot of time and energy and focus on doing this wardrobe overhall, but I have been strategic and planned, bought smart and second-hand when I could and feel that now I can pretty much just maintain my wardrobe going forward. No more time/money/desire to shop aimlessly. I want to focus on more important things - like helping my husband pare down his closet and getting all our stuff moved and organized in our new, smaller RH. P.S. I have sold about $10k of stuff in the past 2 years paring down furniture, hunting accessories, boots, purses, jewelry, motorcycle gear, sporting goods, coats, kitchenware, seasonal decorations, misc furnishings/antiques and 2 sets of dishes. Overall, I feel like this is a huge win and an absolute necessity for us to be able to fit comfortably and without a bunch of clutter in our new place. Since I have had 2 years to do it, it was easier. I would do it all over again. Even though it was a lot of work, it felt good purging. My DH thinks selling stuff is my new hobby, but I would much rather have a less cluttered space that is easier to clean and maintain and find time to get back to reading! My sales proceeds have gone into replacement pieces, doing remodeling at RH and savings. I have funded most of my wardrobe overhaul in cash/some sales proceeds. I will likely not make the same income again for a couple years, so this has worked out well.
Here are my breakdowns of what I bought in 2017, so far. I still have about $500 I expect in clothes sales and I am also trying to sell a custom piece of jewelry I have listed for $1100. So we shall see how that shakes down. I certainly do not think I will have to do such a pare down ever again. (Sure does give me incentive to stay same size!). The next time I pare down, it will be pretty much to get rid of the last of my professional work clothes/shoes/bags. I have about 6 pair of shoes left that are for work and I can prob get rid of about half of those. I will keep one pair of black pumps and one nude. I will get ride of 2 more purses and 1 tote bag. It will be exciting to purge last of my suits/slacks/dresses and just keep the fun stuff. I am really into stuff that can double duty casual or be paired with jackets/shoes/accessories and dressed up if i need. I have bought 4 dresses in the past 2 years, but i like to have them for church/weddings/graduations. Over the last 10 years as I have been strictly a temp, I have probably gotten rid of 15 pair of heels, about 10 suits, 4 dressy coats and 3 briefcases. I also got rid of about 20 pair of boots and numerous business separates and several dresses that were too young/specific. One thing i have done to try to help myself pare down, now that i have gray hair, i don't wear brown anymore, so that was about 1/3 of my wardrobe. I also find that as much as i love navy, it is dressier than i want to be now, so i got rid of a bunch of navy stuff. Now I am way more focused when I do shop and don't buy anything but black, gray or denim. I buy a few colorful accessories (scarves and costume jewelry that are easy to change out). I figure i won't keep much costume jewelry at all either, once i am not working. Jewelry and accessories do not take up nearly as much space, but they are still clutter if they start to take over. Looking back I am sad that I was such a hoarder, but glad I have felt this shift.
total $2159 (less 1000 rings = $1159)
clothes: 409
shoes: 467
accessories: 1283
PM & Thred up
clothes: 59 (misc, incl 2 pair white jeans - this is a tricky category for me, hard to fit and white is unforgiving)
shoes: 124 (2 ankle boots (warm for work - I freeze there and I walk 2 blocks, 1 motorcycle boot (a need - I got rid of 3 others that were not working for me), 1 sneaker, 1 basic pump - I got rid of several cheap sneakers and pumps and got good leather ones)
accessories: 48 (mostly scarves, 1 tote bag and 1 clutch - I never owned a clutch! I bought it for a formal wedding, but picked a basic enough piece, I can use it forever)
ebay
clothes: 45 (2 golf shirts, 2 golf shorts & winter coat - I got rid of 6 other coats)
shoes: 35 (nude pump, black med sandal, 1 med wedge sandal I got rid of 3 pair brown sandals)
accessories: 150 (leather duffle bag and pair of aquamarine stud earrings)
amazon
clothes: 10 (tee)
shoes: 175 (Frye boots and flat sandal - my black pair broke)
other internet purchases:
clothes: (super warm sweater) $60
shoes: (snow boots, 2 sneaker that did not work out) $87
accessories: underwear and bras $25
brick and mortar
accessories: 1060(jewelry, scarves and a golf hat)
clothes (pj's and workout stuff, golf pants, another pair white jeans, 3 dresses): 235
shoes: 50 (2 pair sneakers - I walk a LOT, I buy about every 3 - 6 months)
future wish list for 2018
warm winter boots/house shoes
black pashmina/cashmere type wrap
warm winter hat
hiking boots & day backpack (maybe 2019)
rain parka (may not need - I have a golf rain jacket and I can just use over layers when I walk/hike in the weather)